| Some teens find it really intimidating or embarrassing to talk to their parents about sex. But many parents can give their kids better information, advice, and support than they could get anywhere else.
If you think your parents might freak out, you may want to wait to have this discussion until all of you are ready for it. Meanwhile, you could turn to another trusted adult. This could give you the opportunity to rehearse what you want to say to your parents.
When you are ready to bring it up with your parents, try using a magazine article or TV show as a jumping-off point to start a conversation about sex. Or you might try to start talking about a friend who's deciding to have sex and see how your parents react. It may take more than one conversation about this issue before you feel comfortable disclosing information about your personal feelings and intentions.
Remember that it's normal to feel nervous — many people feel awkward talking about sex. It's good to know that a lot of parents say they are relieved that their kids started this conversation.
Good luck! |