Recognize That We Are All Sexual Beings. We are all sexual beings, with sexual feelings and curiosity throughout our lives. Some parents worry that sharing information about sexuality will only encourage their kids to become sexually active. It's simply not true! Studies have shown that parents communicating with their children about sexuality actually delays sexual activity. You can't harm your children by talking openly and honestly about sex and sexuality.
Don't Panic!
If your child asks a question about sex, it does not necessarily mean they are sexually active, or want to be sexually active. Value your children's questions - it means they feel comfortable talking with you. If you don't know the answer, be honest and work with your child to find the information you need.
Think About Positive Messages.
There is a lot more to sexuality than the negative risks associated with sex. What positive messages do you want to send? Many parents want their children to be able to appreciate their own bodies, be respectful of people of all genders, express love and intimacy in appropriate ways, recognize their own values and so on.
Keep Talking!
Your children will never stop learning. As they develop, new issues will come up. Remain open to their questions!
